Behavior is not right or wrong, good or bad. It just is. It is neutral. Approach behaviors with the dispassionate, objective view of a scientist. Not with emotions.

Chemists consider their basic elements as neutral. They only describe the elements on their basic observable traits, and understand them best when they interact in certain controlled situations. Elements themselves are neutral, they just are.  A chemist doesn’t think of Hydrogen as good, bad, right or wrong.  For them, Hydrogen has 1 proton and no neutrons, has a standard atomic weight of 1.008, and is the most abundant element in the Universe.